We live in a world where everyone can easily find friends, expand the circle of friends and simply communicate with interesting people they don’t know. The Internet opens incredible opportunities for that. Any of us has the chance to choose the communication format we prefer. For instance:
- Dating Web-pages and Apps — special resources where people can enter a relationship, meet, interact and often meet in real life.
- Social Networks — convenient platforms for interacting with friends, close people, relatives and absolutely unknown people.
- Random video chats — online platform where the system connects random people and they start their communication.
By the way, random video chats have lately become very popular among ladies. This is a convenient format of online dating to ensure the anonymity and confidentiality. If, by any chance, you didn’t use stranger video chat or any other ways of online dating, it is high time to do it now. We prepared 12 useful tips for you. They are useful mostly for those who chose random video chat format.
How to make online dating effective and interesting
- Put natural make up. Remember that men don’t like large false eyelashes, bright lipstick, etc. If you want to communicate by webcam chat try to look as natural as possible. Of course, the make-up would do well, but don’t go too far with it.
- Your image must be simple, but pretentious. You don’t have to put a cocktail dress on or an office blouse — that is too much. But a wrinkled home T-shirt is not quite a pick either. Find comfortable but presentable clothes. Jeans and a neat ordinary blouse will be just fine.
- Be womanly. Men love femininity and can easily find it in the lady they are talking to. Work on your speech manners and gestures. You may even try copying them from your favorite actress or a lady-blogger. But don’t go too far – men will notice it.
- Try to fit into the talk of your partner. If he speaks quickly and clearly, try to be on the same wave with him. Otherwise, there will be a discord in your conversation. However, we note that in practice it is men who more often adapt to the girl during communication.
- Avoid «girlish» topics and don’t put it on the man. It is unlikely that he will be able to support them and show interest in them. In addition, a man might be bored with you. After all, you’re talking about something that he has nothing to do with.
- Don’t interrupt the partner. If you notice such a habit, get rid of it. Interrupting is bad. Not only in cam, but also in real life. It always causes irritation. In addition, you can easily lose the main thread of the conversation.
- Don’t be over accessible. It is not only a matter of principle, but also of your safety. Do not arrange a personal meeting after your first meeting. You cannot know exactly what kind of person is on the other side of the screen. Until you get to know him well enough, do not share personal information and do not meet in person.
- Try discussing more topics. Do not focus on one thing. The more you discuss, the better you will get to know the person you are talking to. This will help you find common interests and keep up the conversation.
- Smile often. A smile is the best decoration. If you are not in the mood, you shall not start a camchat. Relax, do other things. And when the mood is right, you can return to online chat again.
- Don’t tell lies. It is better not to answer the question. A lie is a bad thing. Indeed, sooner or later the truth will come out, if you continue to communicate offline. On the Internet, a lot of people say and write facts about themselves that are not true. And this is frankly a bad practice. Be honest.
- Sort out inadequate partners. In all video chats, you can literally switch to the next random user. If the partner behaves improperly or is simply not interesting to you, do not waste your time. Look for what you truly need and like.
- Be initiative. Yes, this is usually the prerogative of a man. But initiative girls are also good. If you like the partner, try developing a conversation, discussing different topics, continue further communication and so on. Sometimes, it can be difficult for men to be initiative all the time.
Don’t forget about the main thing — choosing the optimal platform for online dating
There are hundreds of random webcam chats in the world. And every year there are more and more of them. Do not focus on just one thing. Perhaps it just doesn’t work for you. Try different websites and communication formats. For instance, many of them allow you to search for users only in the specified country or region. If you are looking for a person for a relationship, they will suit you best. We also recommend you to find out which websites are the most popular in your country, and where the most interesting users are for you. Indeed, you must agree that counting on something serious with a person from another continent is quite naive.
If you don’t have online communication experience or you are shy, you can first try talking to the camera. Record it on video and see how you look in the eyes of the partner. This helps to overcome embarrassment, and at the same time evaluate your overall image.
Another important point is good camera. Make sure that a person can see and hear you well. Old webcams are not of high-quality. Perhaps you should consider buying new equipment. Also, remember that the quality of video and sound depends largely on the connection speed. If you have weak Internet (less than 5-10 Mbit/s), it is better to give up video calling for now.
It will be unstable and may interrupt altogether. But accidentally disconnecting from an interesting communication with a partner is unpleasant. Especially if you have not exchanged contacts yet.