Concerts are a great place to start picking up girls for dates and romance. Music is something that intrinsically connects people, so you are off to a good start in the romance department if you like same bands enough to see them in person. Here we will take a look at the five things you need to do to pick up a girl at a concert.
1.Head To The Front
Location, location, location! The girls at the front of the concert are the ones that have the best tickets and are having the best times. Unless you are at a heavy metal concert, the front rows and stage areas are going to be the place with the girls that are looking for fun. So if you plan on picking up a girl from a concert, make sure you are going to the right place by heading straight towards the stage. This works better for your favorite bands so you have something to talk about.
2. Introduce Yourself
This one might sound a little obvious, but too many guys freeze up when they are trying to pick up a girl at a concert. You need to show that you are confident and cool rather than a boy who is too frightened to make the first move. Girls love confidence in a guy, so she will definitely appreciate a guy who knows what he is doing when it is time to meet.
3. Let Her Know You’re Interested
As men, we are all bad at picking up the signals that women are sending to show that they are interested. So once you have spotted a girl that seems interesting, go up where she is standing and get down to the beat of music with her. Dance, head bang, nod along or whatever works with you type of music. When there is a break in the song make eye contact with her and flash a nice smile. She will definitely see that you are interested, friendly, and close by- all things that make it easier to pick up girls.
Bring The Goods
You need to have a way to start off the conversation, right? Well, there is no better way to start off the meeting by offering the girl something nice and refreshing to drink. Go ahead and spent all that money on the bottle of unopened water. The hot and thirsty girls will be willing to speak to you even more at that point. Plus, it shows that you are a provider, telling her on a subconscious level that you are here to take care of her and not another creep hanging out at a concert.
Make Your Intentions Known
Alright, so you have a nice girl, music in common, and the concert is coming to a close. What do you do? Talk to her some more. Ask her questions and let her know that you are really interested in getting to know her better. Do not speak in future tense like “We should hang out some time.” You should hang out now. Offer to go out and get some food or to go somewhere to unwind after the music. Walk out holding her hand and be happy that everything has gone to plan.
Following these steps, you should be highly successful at getting a date from the wonderful young lady. It might take some time to learn how to implement these steps and actually close out the night by leaving arm in arm with the lovely lady. Otherwise, go to this website and see who is available and interested in your area. Practice flirting, talking, and dating until you can as cool and confident as you need to get a date.