A wife found herself in a huge predicament when she realised that the man she had told “for better or for worse” was missing some inches off his pole. It should have been a time for absolute bliss since the woman, who did not disclose her name, had tied the knot with someone she thought of as a “good Christian man” and “wonderful provider.”
However, the joys of the wedding did not seep into the honeymoon night, given that she made the disappointing discovery when they were ready to make love for the first time.
Being a Christian herself, the woman did not have sex with her partner prior to their wedding night. In fact, following her decision to give her life to God, she ceased engaging in sexual activities.
“I became a Christian when I was 19. By that time I had three different boyfriends and I made love to all three,” the 22-year-old wrote. Her letter to Dear Pastor noted that, while she was not proud of her past, sex was something she and all of her friends were engaging in.
Her husband, whom she met at church, did not pressure her to have sex while they were dating, so kissing was as far as they went.
“I would like to say from the outset that I love my husband,” the writer said. Her distress was reflected in her words as she recounted her time with her husband leading up to the wedding night. The pair exchanged vows in June 2023 and had never seen each other’s genitals before then.
“Looking back now, I wonder if I made a mistake,” she continued. “As I write this letter to you, tears are flowing down my face.”
According to the letter, when they were finally ready to have sex on their honeymoon night, she could “barely see his penis” in the dark and had to switch on the light. The woman described her husband’s penis as being so small that it resembled the “size of a child’s little finger.”
When they tried to have sex more than once, she did not feel anything, and her 27-year-old husband was embarrassed. Her husband had also blamed her sexual history for her thinking that he was too small.
As the letter continued, it was noted that she knows what it feels like to be sexually satisfied, and the fact that her husband cannot satisfy her makes her now consider leaving her husband. While the wife dreads the thought, she feels dismayed by the situation and the fact that her husband kept his size a secret.
With hopes that her husband’s shortcomings could be solved, she closed the letter by seeking advice.